Advertisement

Hot Tea
Posted on 2007.09.28 at 21:02
Current Mood: crushed
Thought it was time I logged back on. I've been taking a break from everything LiveJournal, and that unfortunetly means I have a *lot* of catching up to do as far as reading group posts and friend entries. I hope none of you have been real busy...

So this year has been full of painful moments, heart-crushing in fact. There is the lose of my grandma, the recent break up from a much devoted relationship (and now what seems the end of a great friendship, sadly), and now... the lose of a beloved animal companion.

Sugar died on Thursday. A few days before we noticed her acting weird and took her to the vet, to which was discovered that she may have had a parasite (most likely) that was shutting down her kidneys. We did what we could to boost her system, give her medication.. but she couldn't hold on. The reactions around the house could have knocked walls over, and that was just from my screams. She was very close to all of my family, closer than any cat we've taken in before. We're working on a memorial now with all the pictures we've taken up to now.
14 comments  Leave a comment
Add to Memories   Tell a Friend

Comments:

♔victory rose
[info]swirling_chaos at 2007-09-29 02:25 (UTC) (Link)
I'm really sorry about Sugar, and all the hard stuff you've been through lately. Just know that she'd want you to be happy, and that she'll be waiting for you on the other side of the rainbow bridge.

Hang in there. *hugs*
(Reply) (Thread)
Joe
[info]tantric_pixie at 2007-09-29 16:21 (UTC) (Link)
Thanks... and thank you, for responding. I was a little worried about losing friends that I met through Tiffany after her "disowning" of me (which I hope isn't permanent; I'd still like our friendship to workout). You're just too awesome not to be friends with, digital or otherwise. So thanks.
(Reply) (Parent) (Thread)
♔victory rose
[info]swirling_chaos at 2007-09-29 20:54 (UTC) (Link)
Unfortunately, I've noticed that tends to happen a lot when people break up. It's easy to get upset and blame the other person for everything that's happened, but relationships don't work that way - it's always a mutual thing. I know both of you guys need some time away from each other, but I hope you can work things out and become friends again someday.

And thank you, too. Besides, I'd never leave a friend over something like this. I know we don't hang out a lot, but you're still my buddy and I like talking to you.
(Reply) (Parent) (Thread)
Joe
[info]tantric_pixie at 2007-10-01 02:35 (UTC) (Link)
I hope so. Things seemed okay for a few days and then the ugly came around. I was scolded for "taking it too well" and not showing any hurt... basically, for trying to hide how hurt I really was and be friends. Argh >_
(Reply) (Parent) (Thread)
[info]seraphs_haven at 2007-09-30 01:08 (UTC) (Link)
*hugs*

I'm so sorry to hear about Sugar. I know how it feels to lose a pet.

(Reply) (Thread)
Joe
[info]tantric_pixie at 2007-09-30 08:23 (UTC) (Link)
Thanks... I needed one badly.
(Reply) (Parent) (Thread)
[info]seraphs_haven at 2007-09-30 20:00 (UTC) (Link)
*hugs*

here, have another. I have plenty to spare.
(Reply) (Parent) (Thread)
Joe
[info]tantric_pixie at 2007-10-01 02:31 (UTC) (Link)
I'm taking you up on that offer when I see you :D
(Reply) (Parent) (Thread)
[info]seraphs_haven at 2007-10-01 07:00 (UTC) (Link)
deal :D
(Reply) (Parent) (Thread)
Joe
[info]tantric_pixie at 2007-10-01 09:00 (UTC) (Link)
^___________^
(Reply) (Parent) (Thread)
A hierodule of Baphomet
[info]hierodule at 2007-10-02 13:24 (UTC) (Link)
Sorry to hear about your losses. :-((
(Reply) (Thread)
V
[info]galyndean at 2007-10-07 19:06 (UTC) (Link)
*snugs tightly*
(Reply) (Thread)
Joe
[info]tantric_pixie at 2007-10-08 06:57 (UTC) (Link)
*snugs back* Thanks, Jems... appreciate it.
(Reply) (Parent) (Thread)
V
[info]galyndean at 2007-10-08 12:26 (UTC) (Link)
Sorry I didn't respond sooner. I was gone for a little bit.
(Reply) (Parent) (Thread)
Previous Entry  Next Entry  

Advertisement